Battle of the Bands to Honor Memory of Oliver Smith
The Birmingham Bloomfield Community Coalition will dedicate next week's competition to the Bloomfield Township teen that died after using K-2.
Officials with the Birmingham Bloomfield Community Coalition confirmed Thursday that the Battle of the Bands on June 15 will be dedicated to Oliver Smith, the 18-year-old who died last month in an apparent overdose tied to K-2 or Spice.
Carol Mastroianni, the BBCC's executive director, also said that participants at the annual event in Birmingham's Shain Park will spend 18 seconds in silence to mark each year of his life. The decision was finalized Wednesday by the organization's Youth Action Board, which is comprised of teens from area public and private schools who volunteer their time to help prevent underage substance use and abuse.
"Our Youth Action Board team felt very strongly about doing this because this has really impacted everyone in the community," she said. "We want to honor a special person."
Smith's body was discovered by a fisherman along Wing Lake on May 26, and Bloomfield Township police said the Andover High School graduate died of an apparent overdose of synthetic marijuana — commonly referred to as K-2 or Spice. His death sparked a swift response from community members and local and state government officials that are seeking to ban the substances, which are currently sold legally in area gas stations and specialty shops.
The fact is, it can kill you the first time you try it," Youth Action Board members wrote in a letter announcing their decision. "It should not be experimented with under any circumstances. Please, think about how a careless decision with any drug could impact your entire life ... and keep your goals, dreams, and loved ones in mind."
Debbie Thomas
9:58 am on Friday, June 8, 2012
I question the wisdom of honoring a person who was already in the legal system for antisocial behavior and who took the ultimate risk. A better approach might be for the community to begin to do what is necessary to prevent this situation from arising in the future. This is community denial at its worst.
ClassAct4
11:26 am on Friday, June 8, 2012
Pretty harsh words. This was a son, grandson, friend and companion. He was loved unconditionally, Troubled or not, he deserves to be honored and remembered. In so remembering his struggles, a greater good would come to the community.
M roth
8:16 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Kindly shut the hell up (I'll admit I'm heavily censoring my language towards you). He was a good kid who was in a constant battle between temptation and a desire to improve himself. He fought off his demons and was sober for six months before his tragic death, however, he lapsed and he paid the ultimate price. If you don't like the idea of honoring someone who was a friend, a son, a brother, and at his core a very good kid who had a major flaw. Hasn't his family and friends suffered enough without your callous gallivanting your biased thoughts.
Yes. Drugs are bad. I know it. I don't do drugs. However, just becuase someone has made mistakes, it doesn't mean that people don't care and love him. Just because you are obviously an emotionally oblivious doesn't mean people don't love you. Or maybe thats your problem. Maybe you just need a hug.
His passing has been a shocking revelation to many of his young friends (many of whom have not seen mortality) and acquaintances that drugs are lethal. Since then, it has been our voice—the voice of his friends—who have pushed the Michigan legislature to ban K2 and other synthetic drugs in an effort to improve and save the lives of our young people.
So keep it up. Continue to mock our friend. As you are attempting to desecrate his memory by your heartless proselytizing, we are honoring him by helping others. We are saving lives. Saving children and saving friends, all in his honor.
Debbie Thomas
9:04 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Of course, it is appropriate that friends and family mourn their loss. However, it is the responsibility of the community to come up with strategies that will save the lives of young addicts when the education approach doesn't work. We heard 2 ideas from addiction experts during the Patch web chat today. They suggested mental health evaluations for every teen who uses drugs and, most importantly, inpatient mental health care for those who cannot stop using. They were very clear that inpatient therapy does save lives. Obviously, the best time for that care is before the person is age 18 and can legally walk away from the hospital. So we should support more hospitals for young users and addicts.
ClassAct4
11:27 am on Friday, June 8, 2012
"Whatsoever you do to the least of My brothers, that you do unto Me."
Debbie Thomas
12:01 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
Until the community understands that the drugs don't kill, rather it is whatever leads up to the taking of drugs that kills, we will continue to lose young people. The Christian thing to do would be to focus all our attention on the causes behind such risk taking behavior.
ClassAct4
3:04 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
In a perfect world, there would be no addictions. This is not a perfect world. We may try to address issues that we beleive would pre-empt addiction, however, there are far too many variables. Genetics, emerging mental illness and environment all play a roll. Despite our best intentions and interventions, we may not be able to prevent addictive behaviors. It was very couragious for this family to open themselves up to the community so all could learn the dangers of K-2. Someone trying it for the first time could die. It would be a case of community denial to not have an open forum such as this.
Elizabeth Fellows
4:36 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
I sit on the board of BBCC-honoring Oliver's memory at this concert is a beautiful tribute to a young man who tried valiantly and desperately to battle his disease. It is his legacy that this should not happen to another person and what better way to do that than through providing forums where people, especially kids, can become educated on the power of addiction. Kids educating kids, kids wanting to make a difference in kids' lives, that is what this event is about-its a great way to send a powerful message.
Debbie Thomas
8:13 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
If the event includes a data-driven presentation about what factors prevent and reduce drug use by our youth it would be helpful. Parents want to know which treatments are effective and which are not. Anecdotal accounts of recent events through the lens of raw grief tend not to reflect the realities of the general population of youth.
Percy Thrillington
11:20 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Please sign this petition to help ban spice on a national level. Thank you.
https://wwws.whitehouse.gov/petitions#!/petition/ban-all-synthetic-drugs-including-spice-k2-and-related-brands-currently-sold-legally-gas-stations/h94sc1SW
Mr. Smith
12:01 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Hi Debbie - I am somewhat reluctant to engage you in any type of dialogue because it is disturbingly obvious that perhaps with the exception of a text book you have no experience with this type of behavior, what causes it, or the proper way to deal with it. You are simply an observer who has every right to form an opinion regardless of how ignorant and misguided it may be. As a baseline however, I have a few questions. Do you have a son or daughter that has struggled with addiction? Have you struggled with addition? Have you ever been in therapy or rehab for addiction? Do you know Oliver's parents and are you familiar with how they approached Oliver's struggles? Did Oliver go through inpatient and / or outpatient rehab? Was he actively seeing a therapist? I could go on, but if the answer to any of these is no, or I don't know - which I'm guessing is the answer to all of the questions - then you need to contact someone who has first hand knowledge of addiction.
Peggy MacEachern
1:33 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Very well put, Mr. Smith. As far as your reference to Christianity goes, Jesus said that if we believe, we are all his children. I highly doubt that Jesus would object to honoring Oliver's memory. Please do not judge anyone else's sins.
Debbie Thomas
3:01 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
What is this, the Middle Ages? All this talk about demons and sins. My point is the community should have the courage to put the recent drug deaths squarely in our "L" column and move on to create more effective interventions for teen addicts. These teens were already IDd by society as high risk. The addiction professionals say get professional help soon and intensively. We clearly need more inpatient facilities. We don't let teen cancer patients just stay home and "struggle". We shouldn't do the same to teen addicts. But to do that we would have to let go of our romantic and fatalistic views about addiction.
Peggy MacEachern
4:24 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Nobody let Oliver stay at home and struggle. His parents did everything that they had the power to do to help this child You have a have a very fairy tale perception of addiction. You can't just educate,them and place them in rehab and wave a magic wand and everything is better. Addiction is an extremely complex disease, that can sometimes be fatal. As in the case of my beautiful nephew Oliver Smith. He was a child that struggled and was fighting with everything he had to make his way back.
So please do not make any more judgements or comments, until you have educated yourself in this matter.
Peggy MacEachern
4:32 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
People are honored all the time that fought their disease and lost the battle. Why should a person with an addiction not deserve that same honor? We are honoring someone who's death will most likely save many lives.
MSmith
5:04 pm on Thursday, June 14, 2012
I think you do need a hug Debbie. I would be happy to give you one. It is quite obvious that you have lack of knowledge on the subject! So as MRoth put it, "kindly shut the hell up". I will be at the BBCC Battle of the Bands Friday night 7:00 pm dedicated to Oliver Smith!
Debbie Thomas
9:48 am on Friday, June 15, 2012
I'll grant you this: If you keep cruising on that Good Ship Denial instead of bringing this community's considerable resources to bear against teen drug addiction you will have many more memorial concerts to attend.
Mr. Smith
11:42 am on Friday, June 15, 2012
Debbie - perhaps our two ships could meet in the night. It would be interesting to see what The Good Ship Ignorant looks like. My guess is that it has a thinnly veneered exterior and completely void of any innerworkings. BTW, you never answered any of my questions. Please go back, read the questions - and add these - What role are you playing in "bringing the community's considerable resources to bear against teen drug addicition"? What type of resource do you represent?
Debbie Thomas
1:15 pm on Saturday, June 16, 2012
Yikes, if I had a dead child that would make me more qualified? While the deniers were enjoying their cruise to No Responsibility Island those among us who give a real hoot (not a song) were checking out resources like Milford Counseling and inpatient facilities recommended by Brighton Hospital.
Mr. Smith
4:35 pm on Saturday, June 16, 2012
I hope we meet some day Ms Thomas. I would be happy to introduce you to the staff at Brighton and other facilities where Oliver recieved treatment. In the mean time please refrain from using the term denial since it did not and does not apply. You are an ignorant, pompous ass and I'm being generous. My last request - please don't bring any children into the world. The last thing we need is another analytical, soulless person - but then again maybe they can overcome their genetic disadvantages.
Kathy Thelen
11:40 pm on Saturday, June 16, 2012
Shame on you Ms. Thomas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!