The news of the elementary school shooting in Newtown, CT Friday is difficult enough to talk about with adults. But what can you say to children, particularly when so many of the victims were students?
Newtown Patch in Connecticut is posting live updates about the shooting, took the lives of 27, 20 of which were children. The lone shooter, 20, is also dead.
The incident will raise questions about how future such massacres can be prevented. It will also require parents everywhere to figure out how to discuss the violence with their children, many of whom will be returning to their schools next week.
The Bloomfield Hills Schools suggested parents visit the PBS Website for helpful information about talking and listening to children when it comes to tragic news on its Facebook page Friday afternoon.
Parenting.com offers advice for discussing tragic incidents with children. Among the suggestions:
- Don't bring frightening issues up with children under 7, but be prepared to discuss them if your child asks.
- Reassure your small children that they are safe. Even though you know you can't guarantee it, admitting ambiguity won't be helpful.
- Ask questions to make sure you understand how your children are feeling, and assure them their feelings are OK.
The New York Times parenting blog offers a dialogue and a video about discussing violent and scary incidents with your kids.
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Do you plan to discuss the shooting with your children? How will you go about it?